No One Tells You This
For fans of memoirs that are both deeply personal and universally relatable, by Glynnis MacNicol stands out as a profound exploration of single womanhood in the modern age. Set against the vibrant backdrop of New York City, the book delves into MacNicol's life as she turns forty—a milestone often laden with societal expectations and personal reflections.
Despite a flourishing career as a writer and an exciting, independent life, Glynnis finds herself grappling with the conventional benchmarks of success for women: marital status and motherhood. Her narrative unfolds with raw honesty, questioning what it means to lead a fulfilling life without conforming to traditional roles. If one's story doesn’t culminate in a marriage or raising children, what then?
On the eve of her fortieth birthday, Glynnis confronts this pivotal question head-on. The memoir takes readers on a journey through her fortieth year, chronicling everything from the trials of family illness to the liberation and excitement of spontaneous travels and new relationships, including flirtations with young men and even a cowboy hat-clad suitor.
This poignant memoir offers an unflinching look at Glynnis's biggest hopes and fears concerning love, death, sex, friendship, and solitude. Through her journey, she unveils the strength and resilience required to carve out a life that defies societal norms. Her candid reflections provide an empowering narrative, underscoring that self-determination and personal freedom, while challenging, are immensely fulfilling.
Praised by Kirkus Reviews as “sharp, intimate…a funny, frank, and fearless memoir… and a refreshing view of the possibilities—and pitfalls—personal freedom can offer modern women," shatters stereotypes and offers a new blueprint for single living. Through the lens of Glynnis's experiences, the memoir resonates with anyone who has ever questioned the traditional milestones set by society.
The Washington Post lauds the memoir as “beguiling" while Vogue celebrates it as a rare and refreshing dedication to the fulfilment found in single life. Described by Huffington Post as “honest" and by People as achieving “a perfect balance between edgy and poignant," a compelling examination of modern womanhood, embracing a life lived on one’s own terms.
This exhilarating journey will resonate deeply with readers who are determined to navigate life by their own rules, making an essential read for those seeking inspiration and validation in creating their unique paths.